Well, Shibari (縛り), simply put is a Western misnomer for Kinbaku (緊縛美), or Japanese erotic rope bondage. There are a variety of differences between Western BDSM bondage and Japanese styles. Part of the Japanese shtick is to immobilize the bottom (the one tied up) in such a way that it’s (a) artistic in a weird kind of way, which is natural because Japanese are weird, (b) to tie up the sub in such a way that he or she gets pleasure from the actual twisting and pressure of the ropes against the tits and the pussy and the clit and the asshole, you get the idea, and (c) this is the weirdest part – where does the dom come in? Is it simply for living erotic art, almost like pruning and cultivating a bonsai tree (or bonsai kitty for that matter), or is it for actual sex? Me, I am more interested in the sex part. Is shibari psychological or tactile or both? Stay tuned for the next installment.
I guess what I’m questioning is now that the girl is tied up, what do you do? Do you admire her like living art, and take pics, or do you jerk off?
Or fuck her? If you jerk off, do you do it in her face? If you fuck her do you do it in her mouth, pussy, or ass? I prefer to get off on the tactile aspect so I think fucking her mouth pussy and ass and depositing cum loads down her throat is the natural next step once you’ve built your living sculpture.
